Remembering Your Loved Ones
Losing a Loved One
Dealing with the Pain of a Loss
Losing a Child
Coping with Grief
Coping with Suicide
How To Memorialize
Losing a Loved One
The Hardest Time in Life
Dealing with losing a loved one is, of course, extremely difficult for any family member. And experts have plenty of advice to help. Below is a summary of some of the more common tips.
The first bit of advice is somewhat ironic: it’s important to remember that losing a loved one is a difficult time. Often grieving family members suffer privately after losing a loved one, and they may even come to the wrong conclusion that their grief is a sign of weakness. Mental health experts remind these people that, simply put, losing a loved one is a difficult time – for everyone. There is no reason to feel embarrassed or ashamed at feeling sad or confused after losing a loved one.
Another piece of advice that experts commonly give to people after losing a loved one is to find a way to permanently memorialize the loved one.
This can be done in a number of ways, any of which are healthy, and even vital, for good mental health.
Permanent memorials after losing a loved one can take a number of forms. First, families can establish a special place for loved ones to visit to remember the lost family members. Losing a loved one can be made much easier with even a very simple memorial, such as a headstone, located in a well-maintained space available for viewing at any time. Knowing that such a permanent memorial exists can take some of the permanence out of losing a loved one and, accordingly, ease the suffering of grieving family members. Headstones, of course, can be used even in cases in which a lost loved one has been cremated. Likewise, special memorial products, such as memorial rocks and cremation jewelry and even keepsake urns can help establish permanent memorials in locations other than a traditional cemetery. It’s not uncommon, for example, for people, after losing a loved one, to use these products to establish memorials in a number of locations across the country or even the world.
Organizing a fitting funeral is, perhaps, the most common way to cope with losing a loved one. Funerals follow a wide variety of formats and customs according to the religious culture of the deceased, but they almost all have one important feature in common: providing a way for those who have lost a loved one to express their grief publicly. Funeral eulogies are typically moving tributes composed and delivered by those who have lost a loved one in order to celebrate the life of the important person. After writing and delivering a touching eulogy, losing a loved one can often seems less like an ending and more like a beginning of precious memories that will last forever.
Whatever method a family takes to initiate healthy grieving after a losing a loved one, it is, as we say, always important to remember that losing a loved one is extraordinarily difficult. It’s best to follow the experts advice and to do everything possible to assure that the person’s memory lives on for the ages.